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Hard to Believe, But We’re Getting Saner: What’s Involved in Stopping War and Ecocide and the Necessary Mess of Transformation

Posted on August 5, 2013 by sillymickel

The Cycle of All Events, the Evolution of Parenting, and Auspicious Collective Regressions: Being Crazy in an Insane World Might Mean You’re the Sane One Chapter Nine: Regressions in the Service of Society — Messy Healing There Is a Cycle … Continue reading →

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What Say We Leave a Planet For Our Offspring? And Can You Handle Happiness? Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence

Posted on August 3, 2013 by sillymickel

Cycles of War, Cycles of Birth … What Can Be Done: Changing the Patterns of Millennia Requires Learning That Feeling Good Is Not Bad Apocalypse No! Chapter Eight: Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence Men Would Rather Be Manly … Continue reading →

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Republicans Would Rather We Think Them Dumb … Than Evil: Aw, Shucks … The Ignorance Excuse

Posted on September 13, 2012 by sillymickel

Republicans Pay Homage to the God of Common Non-Sense: Convenient-for-the-Rich Social Niceties Is Not Profound Government Policy Our Leaders Prefer We Think Them Dumb Than Culpable I’ve noticed that we live in a time where those in power, making these … Continue reading →

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There Is a Cycle to All Events … The Spiral Dance, Why We Can’t Get No Satisfaction, and Where There Is Real Hope: Rebirthing Rituals, Part One

Posted on September 11, 2012 by sillymickel

The Spiral Dance – The Cycle of All Events: Wedded to Rebirthing Rituals, the Inevitability of Disappointment, and Where There is Real Hope Wedded to Rebirthing Rituals At the point when the perinatal unconscious arises, individuals — and collectively, society … Continue reading →

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“We Are a Fever … We Ain’t Born Typical”: Apocalypse, Human Nature, and the Perinatal Imprint

Posted on August 31, 2012 by sillymickel

Apocalypse – No! Chapter Seven: “We Ain’t Born Typical”” “We Ain’t Born Typical”: A Closer Look at the “Human Nature” Pushing Us to Humanicide – The Perinatal Unconscious “Perinatal” = “Surrounding Birth” “We Are a Fever” How are we to … Continue reading →

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The Four “Colors” of the Perinatal Veils and Why Women Fear Fatness and Men Fear Femininity: Cycles of Birth, Cycles of War

Posted on August 30, 2012 by sillymickel

Four Kinds of Early Experience Color Our Adult Experience in Four Distinct Ways … Cycles of Birth and War: Derailing War and Violence, Part 2 Four Kinds of Experiences in Our First Nine Months Imprint Us for Four Feeling “Flavors” … Continue reading →

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Derailing War and Violence, Part 1: Men Would Rather Be Manly Than Alive and What Say We Leave a Planet for Our Offspring?

Posted on August 25, 2012 by sillymickel

Why We Invite War, Allow Fascism, and Pollute: Our Coming Into the World Makes Us Want to Leave It The question posed at the end of the last chapter was whether we had opened the door to an unimaginable armageddon … Continue reading →

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“We Ain’t Born Typical”: A Closer Look at the “Human Nature” Pushing Us to Humanicide – The Perinatal Unconscious

Posted on March 16, 2012 by sillymickel

“We Are a Fever…We Ain’t Born Typical”: Apocalypse and the Perinatal Unconscious “Perinatal” = “Surrounding Birth” “We Are a Fever” How are we to characterize these strangest of days and the current unprecedented global condition? As I have said, they … Continue reading →

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Becoming Self-Actualizing Instead of Self-Sabotaging – The Hierarchy of Healing

Posted on August 29, 2011 by sillymickel

War, Violence, Earth .. and Our Tendency to Always Screw Up a Good Thing What’s So Bad About Good? Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence The question posed at the end of the last chapter was whether we would … Continue reading →