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What Say We Leave a Planet For Our Offspring? And Can You Handle Happiness? Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence

Posted on August 3, 2013 by sillymickel

Cycles of War, Cycles of Birth … What Can Be Done: Changing the Patterns of Millennia Requires Learning That Feeling Good Is Not Bad Apocalypse No! Chapter Eight: Derailing the Cycles of War and Violence Men Would Rather Be Manly … Continue reading →

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Why There Is Less Violence but More Depression…. And What’s Good About That: Psychology of Generations —The Changing of the Generational Guard

Posted on July 14, 2013 by sillymickel

Consciousness Evolution from the WWII to the Millennial Generations: A Hierarchy of Healing, a Global Healing Crisis, and the Unseen Revolution Wounded Deer and Centaurs, Chapter Fourteen: Psychological History of Today’s Generations and Changing of the Guard Healing Crisis Means … Continue reading →

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The Hierarchy of Healing, An Inconvenient Revolution, and Flaunting One’s Sickness Is Healthier Than Hiding It: Wounded Deer and Centaurs

Posted on September 23, 2012 by sillymickel

Healing Crisis Means Needing to Get “Sicker” Before We Can Be “Weller” and Making It When You DON’T Fake It: Centaurs, Wounded Deer, and the Consciousness Revolution, Untold Apocalypse No! Chapter Eleven: Healing Crisis – Getting “Sick” To Be Well … Continue reading →

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Derailing War and Violence, Part 1: Men Would Rather Be Manly Than Alive and What Say We Leave a Planet for Our Offspring?

Posted on August 25, 2012 by sillymickel

Why We Invite War, Allow Fascism, and Pollute: Our Coming Into the World Makes Us Want to Leave It The question posed at the end of the last chapter was whether we had opened the door to an unimaginable armageddon … Continue reading →

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You Make It When You DON’T Fake It. Of Goths, Gen X, Anti-Abortionists, Pacifiers, and a Hierarchy of Healing: Healing Crisis, Part 5

Posted on July 26, 2012 by sillymickel

Getting Sick to Be Well, Part Five: Flaunting One’s Sickness Is Healthier Than Hiding It … Gen X, Goths, Pacifiers, and The Hierarchy of Healing A Hierarchy of Healing? This idea that those close to their unconscious conflicts are more … Continue reading →